Jewish community grows with arrival of Israelis: ‘Amsterdam Jews don’t understand why we left’
The number of Israelis in Amsterdam is growing, bringing the shrinkage of the Dutch Jewish community to a halt. However, the ‘Israelisation’ of the community – which has accelerated since the Hamas terror attacks of 7 October 2023 – is not without its friction. ‘They live on a little island.’
Adults in glittery jackets, girls dressed as witches, princesses, or elves, and a young boy in a Spider-Man costume: it is a colourful group of Israelis gathered at a community centre in Haarlem on a sun-drenched weekend. They are celebrating Purim, a festival that commemorates the saving of the Jewish people in the Persian Empire. While parents chat with drinks in hand, children run circles around them.
The party, to which neighbors have also been invited, illustrates their distinct position within the Jewish community in the Netherlands. Due to the war against Iran, many celebrate Purim in parking garages or bomb shelters. That isn’t necessary here. Yet, outside the Israeli community in Haarlem, no publicity was given to the gathering.
An invitation to Het Parool was rescinded after consultation with the organising parents. They didn’t just want to keep the location secret; they considered even mentioning Israeli residents in Haarlem undesirable, given the rising reports of antisemitism and the hostility they experience.
Many have left their homeland, Israel, specifically because of the poor security situation there – in such numbers, in fact, that the Jewish community in the Netherlands is no longer shrinking. While the trend elsewhere in Europe has been downward since the Second World War, the Netherlands has recently seen consolidation or even modest growth, according to a report published last year by the Institute for Jewish Policy Research (JPR), a London-based think tank.
Aversion to Likud and Netanyahu
More than a third of the Jewish community now consists of people with a direct connection to Israel (either born there or born in the Netherlands to Israeli parents). The JPR refers to this as the ‘Israelisation’ of the Jewish community, a trend expected to continue. In a few years, Israelis could make up the majority of the Jewish community.
‘I can no longer talk to my Dutch friends about the situation. In my eyes, they don’t understand it’
These emigrants are typically highly educated, work in the tech industry, hold an aversion to the Likud party and Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, and are secular. Outside of Jewish holidays, they often have little to do with the Jewish faith.
Through the association Hakol, they recently established their own version of the Centraal Joods Overleg (Central Jewish Consultation), which represents the interests of the Jewish community in the Netherlands. However, Hakol (Hebrew for ‘the voice’) is not yet officially registered as a foundation. “We can’t manage to find an address,” says one person involved. “As soon as a landlord hears about our background, they withdraw for fear of an attack.”
Men’s discussion group
The desire for Israelis to organise themselves is a recent development. “Generally, they live in their own bubble here,” he says. “That changed after the Hamas terror attack on 7 October and its aftermath. Because of the antisemitism, the pro-Palestinian protests, and the hatred towards Israel, people started looking for a place to share their feelings. I can no longer talk to my Dutch friends about the situation. In my eyes, they don’t understand it.”
The same sentiment is shared by an IT professional who moved from Tel Aviv to Amsterdam with his family in 2019. He belongs to a discussion group of Israeli men who meet monthly under the guidance of a psychologist to talk about their well-being, their feelings, and how the situation in Israel affects their lives in the Netherlands.
The psychologist himself felt a need for contact with compatriots after 7 October. “I felt lonely. Alienated from people in Israel, because I haven’t experienced what they have. But also alienated from my surroundings in the Netherlands, who didn’t understand what I was going through.”
Victimhood
A WhatsApp group of over fifty Israelis working in the Dutch tech industry initially served primarily for networking. “After 7 October, it shifted to sharing personal experiences,” says one participant. “We also talk about antisemitism in the workplace. And about the hostile climate in the Netherlands, and certainly in Amsterdam, towards Israelis – a climate the media contributes to with accusations of genocide.”
Asaf Agranat (47), an IT professional who has lived in Amsterdam-West with his family since last summer, says he hasn't noticed any antisemitism so far. “When I say I’m from Israel, I don’t get strange reactions. The pro-Palestinian demonstrations fall under the right to protest. To a certain extent, I support the goals of the protesters. Israel has a tendency to wallow in a sense of victimhood.”
Other Israeli migrants are more cautious about revealing their background. “In Israel, everyone has Zionist stickers on their car,” says a Dutch Jew who lived in Israel for several years and returned just before the 7 October massacre. “Here, you think twice before visibly wearing a Jewish symbol. Israelis have to adapt in that respect. It’s confronting.”
What causes confusion for Dutch Jews is the often harsh criticism of Israel by the Israelis themselves
“If someone asks where I’m from, I always hesitate for a second: should I say it?” says his Israeli wife. An IT professional adds: “If I identify as Israeli, an awkward silence follows.”
Concealing backgrounds
The debate also plays out in the IT workers' WhatsApp group. “People often hide the fact that they served in the army,” says one participant. “Freelancers, in particular, keep a low profile. They conceal their background just to get a job.”
“Recently, I met the parents of a classmate of my daughter in Year 3,” another shares. “They asked: where are you from? You just know you’re about to set off a bomb.”
The desire for anonymity is further evidenced by the fact that employees of Dutch-Israeli organisations – whether a website or an Amsterdam welfare organisation – objected to even having their names mentioned in this article.
‘The bottom line is: we are one big family, especially now that we are under pressure’
What causes confusion for Dutch Jews is the often scathing criticism of Israel by the Israelis themselves. “They feel they have more of a right to speak out,” says someone from the Dutch Jewish community.
More assertive
“The Israelis feel that we are years behind in our thinking. They are also more assertive and less inclined to stay under the radar. In that sense, they are a reinforcement of the ranks,” says David Beesemer, who works on integrating the Amsterdam Jewish community with the Israeli one. “The bottom line is: we are one big family, especially now that we are under pressure.”
However, both Dutch and Israeli Jews speak of mutual friction. Israelis complain about the aloofness of Dutch Jews, while Dutch Jews perceive Israelis as arrogant and loud.
“The warmth of Israelis is different from that of the Dutch,” says the Dutch Jew who returned shortly before 7 October. “Israelis call Dutch Jews parve, Hebrew for food without any spice.”
Culture clash
Given the relatively young age of Israelis in the Netherlands, the changing composition of the Jewish community will first be felt in Jewish schools, the JPR predicted in its 2025 report. According to those involved, this is already the case, though some Israelis send their children to regular schools. At Rosj Pina – one of the two Jewish primary schools in Amsterdam – the number of pupils rose from 232 in 2017 to over 330. The Jewish secondary school, Maimonides, went from 140 pupils in 2021 to more than 200.
Not everyone is happy with the Israeli pupils. “They don’t have a bond with the Netherlands yet, they are a bit louder, and because of their language difficulties, they pull down the academic level,” says David Beesemer, echoing the complaints of Dutch parents. “I know Amsterdam parents who have taken their children out of school for that reason.”
He also speaks of a culture clash between the two groups. “The Israelis seek each other out, speak Hebrew among themselves, and are tougher. They live on a little island.”
Amsterdam Jews behave like Holocaust victims too often, says an Israeli woman who left Israel with her family a few days after 7 October. “Amsterdam Jews don’t understand why we left. We get challenged on it: why come here? Weren't you in the Promised Land?”
Inbar Hasson, who moved to the Netherlands fifteen years ago, tries to bridge the gap between the two groups. The effects of the Gaza war have provided an incentive. “Due to the demonisation of Israel, which often leads to antisemitism, the dividing lines between the two groups are blurring. The realisation is sinking in that we are in the same boat. When Israel is under fire, we all feel the consequences.”
Driver of emigration
The Israeli emigrants are mostly progressive. “Yes, that’s obviously bad for that movement in Israel,” says an Israeli in Haarlem. “For years in Israel, they’ve been saying: ‘The good people are leaving.’ These are also people who can afford it. They have jobs, passports. They are privileged.”
‘7 October’ is a driver of growing emigration and declining remigration in Israel. Rosita, a Turkish Jew who moved from Istanbul to Tel Aviv with her husband in 2017, left headlong on the day of the massacre with nothing but a bag of clothes. A few hours after the terror attack, they were back in Turkey. Later that same year, they moved to Amsterdam with their son, who was born in Tel Aviv.
He attends a public school here. “We don’t want a religious school where there is prayer. Besides, a Jewish school requires all sorts of security measures. And my son doesn’t speak Hebrew.”
‘Life is better here – in terms of education, healthcare, and a well-functioning government’
Economic conditions and Netanyahu’s attempts to gain more control over the Supreme Court are also driving emigration from Israel. The fact that nearly everyone in the Netherlands speaks English and the better work-life balance make the country attractive.
Security concerns in Israel
But the reason cited most often by the Israelis Het Parool spoke with is the security situation in their homeland. Asaf Agranat: “Every time I ran to the shelter, I asked myself: how can I explain this reality to my children when I can barely figure it out myself? And do I even want to?”
Israeli media often depict Europe as a place rife with antisemitism. “The idea is: Europe isn’t safe,” says an Israeli who has lived in the Netherlands for ten years. “The image is one-sided, but not entirely nonsensical. On the other hand, life is better here – in terms of education, healthcare, and a well-functioning government.”
Security concerns in Israel were heightened last summer by American airstrikes on Iran. It is no different with the current war. As an Israeli living in Amstelveen puts it: “Parents want their children to be able to lead a normal life: playing outside happily and not constantly having to run when the air-raid siren goes off.”
An Amsterdam Israeli who arrived a few days after 7 October puts it this way: “Israel is no place for children. We want them to be safe.”
For this article, Het Parool spoke with eleven emigrated Israelis, the vast majority of whom wish to remain anonymous for security reasons.